Let me share with you a simple tip I give parents.
I call it the two option rule and it is amazingly effective to help keep things simple and offer control and independence to toddlers.
Instead of asking what a toddler would like, give them 2 choices.
You can apply this scenario to almost any situation.
Here are some examples:
Instead of asking ” what would you like to drink?”
Ask ” would you like milk or water?” Or whatever the options are that are acceptable to you.
“Would you like me to read you a story before bed or would you like to show me some pictures in the book?”
When you ask “What would you like? ” the answer might not be a suitable option which may lead to conflict.
Remember, they are toddlers and need some guidance and structure while exploring their independence.
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